Own your life,
live your purpose.
Are you tired of living your life with the brakes on?
I feel you man! I've spent years of my life fighting against myself and limiting my own potential. Maybe you recognize some of these:
Sabotaging and limiting yourself
Sometimes you feel like you are constanlty fighting against yourself. You know what you should be doing to turn your life into the adventure you'd love to experience but can't get yourself to do it. On the other hand there are things you know are sucking up your time and energy that you should be avoiding but you keep going back to your old habits.
Pressure and worries - No time to relax
You constantly worry/hope everything will go wrong/right (hope is just another word for worry), especially the reactions and oppinions of others sometimes stress you out. You would like to just do what ever the hell you want and just go for the things you desire but the fear of what others will think or say about you (rejection, abandonment, etc.) still is limiting your freedom to "ask that woman out", "call that client", "say no to...".
Indecisiveness, overthinking and procrastination
You have a lot of great ideas and probably most of them could really work with great execution but instead of realizing them you spend absurd amounts of time going around in your own mind, feeling stuck and frustrated.
Feeling guilt for not making use of your potential
You know you have so much to give and that you could truly make a difference in this world in your own personal way and it drives you crazy that you are not allowing yourself to actually make use of all this potential.
What if you stopped limiting yourself and started living your purpose?
Imagine you took full ownership for your life and overcame these limitations.
Live with direction and purpose
Feel a deep sense of purpose, connection and joy because you know you are contributing to this world you live in. Knowing your place in this world and giving back to your community is deeply fullfilling and will change the way you percieve your life forever. It will also charge you with an immense energy and drive that will make you jump out of bed in the morning because you can not wait for this new day and the adventure that is awaiting you.
Become a decisive action-taker
Don't just imagine great things and visions, be the one to make them happen. Knowing exactly who you are and what you want and having the courage to act with integrity accordingly to it makes you a magnetic personality and a force of nature that inspires others to join and follow your vision.
Achieve true freedom and independence
Looking inside you will find the freedom and dependence you have been longing for. Not needing the external validation anymore, the opinions and expectations of others have no power over you anymore. You have become a free man. Overflowing with this abundance inside you become attractive for those things/events/people you before wanted so badly to come into your life. Though you won't need them anymore ;)
Enjoy the journey, achieve your goals in a flow-state
Realizing your goals not from a place of pressure constantly worried if things will work out, but instead from a deep knowing that you are exactly where you are supposed to be and all you need to do is to follow your passion, show up and use your gifts. You can be highly effective working in a state of flow, ease and joy. So say goodbye to the pressure that once has pushed you forward and say hello to the magnetic pull of continuously enjoying the path you are on to keep learning and developing while sharing your joy with those around you.
3 steps to create a life you love living
Step 1
Take ownership of your life
To make any changes in life you need to accept where you are and take responsiblity for your own creation. Where you are today is a reflection of who you were yesterday.
You can be very proud for how far you've come and still: If you want to create a life bigger than the one you are living you need to become a match to this vision.
Step 2
Transform yourself and match your vision
Create from the inside out. To realize your vision of life you need to become the man that matches this vision.
It only works this way, you can not attract or create something on the outside that you don't embody on the inside.
Live your purpose today, be the man you want to be right now. You don't need to wait to embody truth, courage and integrity in your life.
Step 3
Take alligned action, living your purpose and vision.
Realize your vision through centered and directed action-taking. Combining the active power of your warrior archetype with the clarity and direction of your inner king to embody your purpose and make life your most amazing adventure.
Enjoy the journey of making the impossible possible and realizing your goals in a state of flow and allignement.
Not because you have anything to prove, simply because you enjoy contibuting to this world and creating a positive impact.
Ready to explore the unknown?
“People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own souls. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”
C. G. Jung
How to work with me
You can not see your own bild spots. Be honest:
If you really knew the solution to overcoming your challenge you would have done it.
Why fight alone when you can reach your goals faster and with more ease
allowing yourself to be supported?
I offer you the possibility to find out what is actually holding you back and support you overcome your challenges. I do this through retreats, online-programs and 1:1 coaching.
Using tools like emotion coaching, shadow- and parts-work, the mature masculine archetypes, systemic constellation, the hero's journey and my experience from a decade of learning and experiencing all tools and methods I could find.
Pick your weapon:
My story and the "Why" behind the EmpowerMENt‒Project
Besides the other men that will be with you on this journey I will be the one you can always turn to during this transformative phase of the next months. I guess you should know a thing or two about where I am coming from so that you can make up your own mind on if you want to trust this guy to support you making your life-vision happen or not.
Hey man, I'm Nils...
...adventurer, partner, father, brother and son
And since a couple of years: certified men’s coach and mentor.
Four years ago, menswork jolted me awake, pushing me to stop drifting and start living with purpose. I’d been stuck and focused only on myself, rather than sharing my presence and gifts with others.
I've spent a decade traveling, trying countless methods, therapies, plant medicines, meditation styles, religions, retreats, workshops, seminars and philosophies, all in search of answers and something I couldn't really yet put my finger on. Today I know: I was looking for a feeling of purpose and completion that can only come from truly knowing yourself.
I did all of these things not out of pure curiosity but because I felt empty and desperate, always chasing relief from a nagging sense of incompleteness. Through the pain and self-doubt, I learned much about life. No, I haven’t found a permanent key to happiness, but I’ve discovered ways to live with meaning, joy, and purpose.
I've dropped out of lawschool to become self-employed as a videographer which allowed me to continue travelling the world outside, while I kept exploring the one inside of me.
While the lifestyle was great, I still felt like there was something inside me that mattered more to me than what I was doing so far.
So in 2023 I decided to make use of my coaching and teacher trainings and transitioned to helping men realize their own vision and live their purpose. I droppped my old business which wasn't easy but not making a living helping other men realize their dreams I know that was the right choice to make.
And this is why I love menswork and business coaching...
I owe a big part of my personal growth to menswork, where I encountered a space of brotherhood and connection among men that was both loving and supportive but at the same time honest, straightforward and direct when it came to holding each other accountable to staying in our integriy and facing our own shadows, those parts none of us likes to see or admit in themselves and still: We all have them and man...does that part of you hold a present for you if you are willing to face it.
This work - menswork - lets me use my pain and struggles to benefit others. There’s nothing more fulfilling than seeing a man realize he’s been holding himself back for all his life and step forward with a genuine "YES" to himself, a "YES" to life. I found that a mission worth dedicating my life to.
After I started working with men I quickly realized how many of them wanted to be free regarding to when they work, where they work, how much money they make and what exactly they do. They wanted to build tehir own business.
Since I've been through the struggles of building your own business and I knew that it's a deeply spiritual journey that goes hand in hand with the inner work we do in menswork I decided to make this part of my offering: Empowering other men to show themselves with what they have to share with the world and make a living doing what they love and believe in.
I've been working with Nils for just over a year now in 1:1 realizing my dream of bulding my own business as a music producer. I can say that he didn't just help me to finally monetize my passion and have paying clients but more importantly supported me in enjoying my life again.
Erik Ronneberg
Music Producer - Ronneberg Productions
I had - no joke - spent 4 years working on overcoming my fears of showing myself with my work/business and finally going into sales with it. I work with Nils for a couple of weeks and...wtf...I am finally able to make cold calls!
That's a huge breakthrough for me. Next step is that I don't just do it despite the fear but I actually start enjoying it. Looking forward to working on that too Nils ;)
Enrico Wiederholt
CEO of Wiederhold Marketing & Consulting
Nils is a fantastic Coach, I've been working woth him for 6 months and he helped me face my own fears and shadows now I feel in control of my own decisions and action again!
Vincent Doormann
Music Producer - Sonic Wizards
I've been at one of the Retreats and worked 1:1 with Nils on my fear of starting my freelance business. And what can I say...I could finally realize my dream of making a living doing what I love to do. There's still challenges of course but Nils showed me how to see those as opportunities instead of problems. Forever grateful for your support Nils!
Jannis Winkels
Graphic Designer
I've done the 3-month 1:1 transformational program with Nils and not only have I achieved new levels of success on my professional life but more importantly I've understood how self-love and self-worth are tied with each other, how important they are for a fulfilled life and I've made it a priority now in my life to nurture those.
Vincent Wypior
CTO & AI EXPERT - Lexdex
Every man should be able to experience this kind of community, energy and connection that happens at the events, retreats and mencircles that Nils creates and organises. Thank you for bringing this work into the world brother!
Sebastian Köppe
Architect
I've been working with Nils for just over a year now in 1:1 realizing my dream of bulding my own business as a music producer. I can say that he didn't just help me to finally monetize my passion and have paying clients but more importantly supported me in enjoying my life again.
Erik Ronneberg
Music Producer - Ronneberg Productions
I had - no joke - spent 4 years working on overcoming my fears of showing myself with my work/business and finally going into sales with it. I work with Nils for a couple of weeks and...wtf...I am finally able to make cold calls!
That's a huge breakthrough for me. Next step is that I don't just do it despite the fear but I actually start enjoying it. Looking forward to working on that too Nils ;)
Enrico Wiederholt
CEO of Wiederhold Marketing & Consulting
Nils is a fantastic Coach, I've been working woth him for 6 months and he helped me face my own fears and shadows now I feel in control of my own decisions and action again!
Vincent Doormann
Music Producer - Sonic Wizards
I've been at one of the Retreats and worked 1:1 with Nils on my fear of starting my freelance business. And what can I say...I could finally realize my dream of making a living doing what I love to do. There's still challenges of course but Nils showed me how to see those as opportunities instead of problems. Forever grateful for your support Nils!
Jannis Winkels
Graphic Designer
I've done the 3-month 1:1 transformational program with Nils and not only have I achieved new levels of success on my professional life but more importantly I've understood how self-love and self-worth are tied with each other, how important they are for a fulfilled life and I've made it a priority now in my life to nurture those.
Vincent Wypior
CTO & AI EXPERT - Lexdex
Every man should be able to experience this kind of community, energy and connection that happens at the events, retreats and mencircles that Nils creates and organises. Thank you for bringing this work into the world brother!
Sebastian Köppe
Architect
Do you feel there's something more waiting for you? Let's talk.
We all keep postponing the moment to face our own power, I get it, it's scary. But there won't be a better moment, it will not get easier to make the leap and jump.
If you feel ready for the next level in your personal journey, let's speak. We'll get to know each other and if both you and I feel that this work can benefit you we can talk about your options but the journey starts with one single couragous step:
Allowing yourself to reach out.
Only like this you will discover what's waiting for you on the other side.
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Own your life to live your purpose.